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Social Misperceptions, by Chimera
July 30th, 2007 under Interesting Articles. [ Comments: 2 ]

social misperceptions
This week my sister (bless her pointy head) said something that made me stop dead in my tracks and think hard.
Most of us are adults in fact all of us I think. Our world view is pretty much set and is often something we don’t even in fact consider. We are either comfortable with our social status, or working on improving it, and hopefully the adolescent heebie jeebies have settled down. I know this seems off topic but I hope this statement will prove to have a bearing.
I say most of us. I also put forth the theory that once our world view is established and we are comfortable within ourselves we spend less time questioning the world view of others. In other words if we are comfy then surely (unless they display huge insecurity issues) then so must everyone else be.
Now my sis comes in for lunch and as usual knocks on the door knowing full well I am working but unable to resist disturbing. So, we talk and she says “I have a crush on XYZ person but he would never look at someone like me, look what I do for a living (she is an account executive for a local cell phone company) and look how I live!”(we have an old duplex in a very respectable part of town with high property values but not the highest).
Ok so can someone PLEASE tell me what is wrong with that statement or what is wrong with where we live or…why a city councilman would never consider an account executive who lived in a higher middle income community?
I find in webmastering there exists that standard as well. Sploggers vs bloggers tgp vs free sites omg the list of “social” groupings people try and imagine and even sometimes take it on themselves to enforce make me cringe.
I myself confess to having envied more than one wordsmith with the ability to craft these shining towers of interwoven words and double entendres. Imagine the finest blown most intricately designed vase and that is what I see in their words.
However, I also know who I am, and am comfortable with it. Rather than masturbating with my words and displaying them in their beautifully wrought symmetry for others to enjoy with me, I am capable of only the plain word fuck.
Say it. Said it. Good. A sturdy plain brown vase that does what it is intended to do is all my best efforts can create. Though i envy the crafters of wordly majesty I am happy with what I can do. I try not to put the wordsmiths on another social plane nor will I accept them being placed there by another’s judgement. Instead I admire their work and enjoy my own.
However this strange social misperception seems to be growing in the webmastering community, and is to me even more amazing because where it is supposed to be about dollars it seems to some to have become more about “status”.
These are completely artificial social barriers stemming from no business point of view, but instead, arbitrarily erected, ,and summarily enforced by some self appointed magistrates of social standing for no discernable reason beyond that of self aggrandizement. I do not understand those trying to erect them, and understand less those bowing to other’s judgements. It just floors me.
I am comfortable in who I am. I am too busy to examine what others do in depth. I make money with my way. I know many who make money with what they do, whether be they on the top of these false social ladders or no. So how on earth can this be happening?
Every time I see these social epeens trying to establish a “top of the pile” order, my jaw drops. Everytime some silly sod says “blah blah blah I do it better” I cringe. Every time someone listens to and buys into this steaming pile of horse hockey, it makes me burn.
I don’t think I can change my sister, because something in her mind has made her feel less “socially acceptable” than our status determined by our jobs or home say she should be.
I don’t know if I could even change the webmastering community or should even try.
However, I can register my amazement that anyone would allow a stranger to dictate how they feel about their work.

Peace :)


RSS in Plain English
July 30th, 2007 under Interesting Articles. [ Comments: none ]

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Interesting Threads This Week At The Netpond Board
July 30th, 2007 under Interesting Threads At The Netpond Board. [ Comments: none ]

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And those are just a few of the threads this week at the Netpond Board that we wanted to point out to you. There are many many more. And if you have any questions or even would like to share with the others on the board start your own thread in the right section. Questions are always welcome so ask away. We hope to see you on the Netpond Board.


Dana Dane’s Erocktavision, Cisco Adler and Whitestar rocked Malibu
July 30th, 2007 under Industry News. [ Comments: none ]

Malibu, CA – Dana Dane’s Erocktavision, the progressive true lesbian x-rated music video series hooked up with Cisco Adler and his band Whitestarr on Friday night in Malibu Calfironia and gave fans an unforgettable evening.

Cisco’s band pumped up the house and Erocktavisions videos played on the venues monitors keeping the night hot and heavy with looping video of Erocktavisions compilation of rockin makeout scenes.

And the beautiful Vivid Girl Sunny Leone and newcomer Lacelle joined the ERock evening with appearances, rocking out on stage with the band and throwing ERock giveaways out to the amped up crowd.

“It was an awesome night.” Says Dana Dane, director of Erocktavision and owner of the Dana Dane Presents brand. “We work with a lot of great musicians but this time around we were honored to partner ERock videos with Whitestarr while the music was live. It Erocked, and unforgettable night that is for sure!.”

ERock has more live partnering events on the horizon this year along with special bonus footage/downloads from the live performances.

The Erock series is known for its true lesbian sex scenes, locations, special effects and great music mixing soundtracks. And best of all, the beautiful Niki Clover is the main star of the series. The composition of ERock’s videos are one of a kind and ERock was voted the 2007 AVN Award winner for best all girls series along with other nominations and accolades!

You can check out and get your copy of the ERocktavision series by going to http://erocktavision.com or ordering through Pulse Distribution.

Want a peek with download scenes? You can get it at http://erocktavision.com

Send your business questions or fan requests to: danadane@erocktavision.com or lori@theadultbroker.com.

Get your ERock on!


Buying/using content 101 - Article by _LB_
July 30th, 2007 under Interesting Articles. [ Comments: none ]

Buying/using content 101 - Article by _LB_

 

 


I am probably risking every content provider, their 2nd cousin and their dog entering this thread, but there are hardly any impartial threads about content on the pond, and as someone who has bought as an affiliate, bought for resale, bought for paysites, and even organised exclusive shoots in a variety of niches …. its about time we had a thread on the subject with my lowly newbie … but at least impartial thoughts and tips

Firstly the content market is the grass roots of the adult industry, the really hands on dirty and down to earth base level of what this industry is about. You get all sorts … but rarely do you get your professional minded, business geared and conservative button up shirt with collar pornographer type ….. well people just like me … who are just in it for the $ and not the lifestyle. It takes a particular type to shoot content well, and I for one am so damn glad they do the job because there is nothing I would hate more than having to be involved with content production. Thanks for taking one for the team guys !

Firstly buying content as an affiliate….

Don’t. Well unless you are in a very narrow niche and you are sure the content you are buying isn’t all over the place. This is especially true for tgp and freesite submitting.

Affiliates simply have no need to buy content with such an incredible amount of content on offer by affiliate programs. You are actually worse off buying content from the popular content houses than using free affiliate content because in many cases the popular cheap/middle price content house stock sets are absolutely everywhere!

As an affiliate I posted galleries and freesites hardcore for 2 years. I made a good living off them, and used both free content and bought content. Now this is back 2-4 years when there still wasn’t anywhere near the content available from affiliate programs that there is today ….. and still i made MORE from the free affiliate content than the bought stuff. When looking for sponsor content try the smaller to medium sized affiliate programs with a nice variety of sets and not 100000000000 affiliates promoting them.

Though when using free content please note :

- It doesn’t get worn out or saturated anywhere near as much as you think it does. You should be using the content over and over and over …. not just once. If you stop getting listed then ok its time to move on, but you would be surprised how much you can get listed with content that many consider to be oversaturated.

- If you make a few sales and your sponsor isn’t one of the big (we only care about the 100 sales a day guys) ones ….. then might be worth contacting them and asking for some members area content that others dont have or even a members pass! Many programs are more than willing to let you use their members area stuff if you prove you are a webmaster who can actually make sales.

If you are looking at buying content to submit …..

- It helps if you like the niche, because your content shopping isn’t based on guess work.

- Don’t assume price means its less saturated or better. Dirt cheap content can be better and less saturated than expensive stuff.

- Spend some time looking for smaller content providers, they may have some unique content at decent prices that will work perfectly with your galleries/free sites. There are many content providers who do a good job of selling their stuff, but the problem is their stuff is absolutely everywhere…. and more saturated than any sponsor content could ever be. Many of the smaller content sellers will give you more value for money and more reusability. The number of times I have bought from the ‘best’ content providers and been knocked back on my first submit for the reason “content is overused”!! There goes $20-50 for nothing.

- When buying to promote another site (not that I suggest you do) … try to match the genre, niche and style of the content to that of your sponsor.

Now some tips for dealing with content providers.

- The more they have been in the industry, the more confident they are likely to be. Problem with this is that many attach an extra pricetag to their content because they have been shooting X number of years. Be sure to judge their content on your own … don’t take their claims at face value. It helps to ask fellow webmasters interested in the niche their opinion …. and I have found that doing it without mentioning who shot the content works the best.

- I personally have found dealing with newer or smaller content providers better. I am able to foster a more workable relationship, and prices have been fair. In fact for some of my exclusive stuff …. the cheapest shoots I had done have proven to be the most popular with surfers! Go figure

- Price is always a point for negotiation. Don’t be a scrooge … but still try to work a deal that is a win/win. Content providers do tend to offer large discounts for bulk buys, so it might be worth getting a worthwhile stock of content in one go if you can.

- Unfortunately many content shooters can be desperate to sell their content. They will try anything to get a sale, and make claims that are unrealistic. Step back from the sale hype and try to decide whether its money well spent or are you really just responding to the sales pitch? Once you part with your $ …. it’s probably gone for good so be sure.

- Most content providers who sell a variety of niches don’t understand those niches. A classic example would be voyeur. I could confidently say that 95% of content providers with voyeur category have it filled with content that doesn’t even pass as poor voyeur content. This is the same over several niches, so do your research and don’t take the category on face value.

- Docs. Are they in order? Don’t just take their word for it, ensure they are before you make the purchace. If you don’t live in the US there are still advantages to having .2257 docs.

- Do they have resale rights for the content? Its common to see content providers try to sell budget packages for bargain prices on the boards. Its worth ensuring they have the rights to sell the content. You might be buying a problem.

- Check the licence. Do you need to fax or mail the licence in? Also be aware what the licence allows you to do with the content. Eg if you have a paysite you are using it on, can you offer if for affiliate use, or even now freehosted gallery use ? Many content providers have noticed affiliates are taking content off free hosted galleries and have excluded fhg use because of it.

- When buying content don’t expect the content provider to give you all docs and all content without paying a cent. I am sure these guys have been ripped off as many times as buyers have been ripped off by fake content sellers. Be willing to meet in the middle as far as payment terms go…. especially for the first transaction. Asking for references or using a contract for big $ transactions shouldn’t be a problem for either party. Offence when being asked for reference is usually a sign that something is wrong.

- On the few occasions I have attempted to get a refund from a content provider I have never been able to. Usually it was because their content was nothing like the told me it was…. and was unusable. In fact I have learnt you should always get samples before buying…. just to make sure. This is definitely true with microniches where the videos/pics may not actually be in the microniche you are told they are.

I could keep going all day

Do you want to shoot content????? If so PLEASE DO! The industry needs new blood … and there are far too many guys who have been around for years and years who try to discourage new people from entering the industry. In my experience the newer guys shoot much better content ….. especially in niches they are interested in and passionate about. In fact some of my best sets are by fairly new content providers who hardly charged anything, and they are the sets that just drive our members wild, and always get the best sales when put on tours/promo stuff.

There is actually a lot of room for content guys who can listen, who can act with professionalism, and who don’t require you to climb the ‘Great Wall Of Ego’. That is just a personal opinion of mine though

My best advice ? …..

My advice is that just like you should never take advice on buying a car from a used car salesman, never take advice on buying hosting from a host, …. you should never take to heart advice on buying content from a content provider. Make an informed decision with your hard earnt $.

Call it a lesson learn’t the hard way.



Blue Design Studios turns up the summer heat with cool savings
July 27th, 2007 under Sponsor Spotlight. [ Comments: none ]

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Blue Design Studios

Sydney, Australia—Blue Design Studios, one of the premier and long standing design studios in the adult industry with 7 years of expertise service for all levels of adult design, has launched their cool savings in summer specials.

Right now there are 5 summer specials to choose from. You can select a special for each order you submit. The great savings include:

• Free advanced affiliate program design with 10 paysites
• 20% off non-adult site designs
• Order 3 DVD covers, get the 4th one free
• Free NATS integration with all affiliate program designs
• Order 4 paysites and get the the 5th one free

“Summer is a great time to reevaluate ones company, sites, optimization and also new ideas to upgrade and get ready for the fall rev up.” Says Wade, owner of Blue Design Studios. “So we’re offering these specials to help incentivise companies to look at what they have and use the summer to make their fall business even better! “

Blue Design Studios is renowned for their crisp, creative, innovative and attention to detail designs. Blue Design Studios is regarded for their design build of affiliate programs, any kind of tour, banners, presentations, galleries, flash, TGP sites, banners, full page ads, headers and everything else an adult site needs to succeed.

Take a look at Blue Design Studios extensive portfolio for inspiration
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Get your order in today.
Email: Wade@BlueDesignStudios.com

These specials are good for all orders received by September 30th.

Save some cool cash by getting hot new designs, only from Blue Design Studios.


MooCash Hires Craig Tant for Position of Marketing Director
July 27th, 2007 under Industry News. [ Comments: 1 ]

We at MooCash.com are very pleased to announce our immediate hiring
of Craig Tant for the position of Marketing Director.

Craig brings over 10 years continued experience in the adult industry.
Just recently he was the VP of Sales and Marketing for 5 years for Sexkey.com,
and before that was one of the original owners and VP of Marketing for
CCBill.com.

His experience and knowledge will be useful as we at MooCash get set to launch
our new programs designed to help our Chat Hosts gain more market share.
Feel free to contact Craig directly for questions on improving traffic,
increasing conversions, and for all sales and marketing questions.

In addition, for those of you who run your own paysites, we are opening up
his services free to our Chat Hosts and Webmasters so he can provide even
more assistance on how to get your sites to next level.

Craig will next be attending the upcoming Internext Show in Hollywood, Florida
from August 1st to August 5th. For those who would like to set up meetings at
the show, or to talk to him immediately, his contact information is listed
below.

Join us in welcoming Craig and wishing him the best of luck as we look to
bring the very latest in ideas and programs to fulfill your needs.

Craig can be reached at:
craig@moocash.com
cccraig@cableone.net home office
ICQ 131 247 490
Yahoo: craig_tant
AIM: TantCraig
Cell number provided on request.

Sincerely,
The owners of MooCash, and their affiliated cam sites.


Horny Hedgehogs Spark Police Callout
July 25th, 2007 under Interesting Articles. [ Comments: none ]

SPIEGEL Online reports here: Two hedgehogs triggered a nocturnal police operation in Germany this week after the spiky little mammals awoke neighbors with their loud, shameless mating. They went on fornicating even as a crowd gathered to watch them. In fact the attention made them even more vigorous. :)


Misconceptions, Misunderstanding, Lies article by Sleazybear
July 23rd, 2007 under Interesting Articles. [ Comments: none ]

The biggest misunderstanding in this business is you can put up a few websites and be wealthy. That is totally wrong. This is one of the easiest businesses to start up, but can be the hardest to make money in. It takes time to learn this business and it takes time for you to build traffic. It doesn’t happen over night, many a new web master learns it may take 1 to 3 months to get there first sale. Don’t let this discourage you. I know one web master that made one sale in six months, after 4 years he is now making 250,000 a year. The money is there, you just have to learn how to make it. Then on the other scale I knew a web master that made $1,500 his first month, he quit because he felt the work he had to put in to get that amount was to much. It takes a lot of work to become successful some successful web masters know that it takes ten hours a day or more. There is so many ways to make money as an adult web master, but you have to learn what works for you. You may find that doing blogs makes you more money than doing free sites, or you may learn that working with search engines is your money maker. Its a lot of trial and error. There is no magic key, no golden egg, its all time consuming work. Anyone that says different is a lier.

The biggest lie I have ever seen comes from business magazines. I have seen full page advertisements that say. Make millions in adult. We will provide you everything you need to know. Do they? Not exactly, what they do is sell you a pay site and then you have to drive traffic to that pay site. I have talked to new web masters that bought into this line of crap. Some spending as much as fifty thousand dollars. Its one of the hardest things I have to deal with. Because I know from experience they was flat out lied to, and flat out robbed of there cash. Some even there life savings. If you don’t know how to drive traffic, and you don’t know how to make sales, no amount of money is going to make you a millionaire. I know of one company that spent a couple of million dollars on promoting themselves, had a huge party, gave away hundreds of t-shirts, had big stage where girls was dancing half naked. They went belly up in a year, because there sites sucked, and an affiliate couldn’t sell them. Its a very good example of you have to start at the bottom and work hard and build yourself to that point.

May all your hits be clicks and all your clicks be $$$
Sleazybear


Top 5 Video Countdown
July 23rd, 2007 under Off Beat Video News. [ Comments: none ]

Some funny shit here, so check it out! :)


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